by Adam Sargant, Dip.H.Ed (Nursing Studies), Dip.Hyp., NLP (prac)
What is pain? How does pain manifest? What is the "structure"
of pain? How can NLP and hypnosis assist in the management
of pain?
A recent Scientific American article stated: "Though
often denigrated as fakery or wishful thinking, hypnosis has
been shown to be a real phenomenon with a variety of therapeutic
uses -- especially in controlling pain"
Pain is an experience that blights many lives and comes in
many forms. Chronic pain is often classified as pain that
persists for a period of a month or more beyond the normal
recovery time of an illness, or pain that persists for several
months or years as a result of a chronic condition, and can
be of any intensity. Even low-level chronic pain can be debilitating.
Acute pain is a short-lived condition within the normal experience
of an acute illness or injury. Breakthrough pain is a transitory
flare of pain of moderate to severe intensity occurring on
a background of otherwise controlled pain.
Pain originates in the nervous system and clearly has a useful
role to play in the development of avoidance strategies for
situations and experiences that can cause us harm. However,
multiple factors can conspire to produce the sensation of
pain in situations where the information is no longer useful.
It is obvious that in some injuries and illnesses, the brain
receives information about pain that the person experiencing
that pain is able to do very little about in terms of avoiding
the stimuli. What is not so obvious is that the conscious
experience of pain is modified by many other factors such
as memory, emotion, and physical condition. In other words,
the experience of pain is determined by the context in which
that pain takes place. This further complicated by the fact
that some pain cannot be found to have an organic (disease
or injury) related cause at all.
Milton Erickson described pain as a construct that consisted
past remembered pain, present pain experience and of anticipated
pain in the future. These combine to give the meaning that
the pain has for us, and this is one of the reasons that chronic
pain (of any intensity) can be so debilitating. Nothing will
intensify one's experience of pain as much as the anticipation
that it will be there tomorrow, and the day after and so on.
Similarly, learning to relax and simply let go of the anticipation
and the fear can result in remarkable changes in our experience
of pain.
As a child, I suffered several bouts of recurring osteomyelitis,
a bone marrow infection that was often accompanied by high
fever and severe pain. The pain persisted as a result of the
deformations of bone that took place and the necessary surgery,
but I learned very early on that I could alter my own experience
of pain through what I considered back then to be a number
of mental tricks. I did not know what I know now about the
nature of pain but I was able to effect some remarkable changes
to my experience of pain, which laid the foundations for my
current understanding of the nature of experience.
So, let's look at a few techniques that we can use to experience
pain differently, and take some control over how it affects
our lives.
Relaxation and Trance
One of the simplest (and the hardest) things to learn to
do is to learn to relax. I do not intend to cover relaxation
and trance techniques in this article, there will be others
on those, but I suggest that you simply think about words
and phrases that help you relax, and test them out. I find
I can go a long way into trance simply by telling myself to
"Breathe...and relaaax" in a gentle and deep tone,
and feeling my body relax further on each out breath. I can
then take it a little further by telling myself that as I
count down from 5 to 1, I will relax further and further into
a trance. Try it. Play with it.
Meditative Approach
The first technique I would like to share is the first one
I discovered as a child with osteomyelitis. And that was to
simply focus all my attention on the pain, in as relaxed way
as possible. The pain became a focus for a form of meditation,
whereby it is observed dispassionately for what it is.
Synesthesia
An extension of this technique (and best carried out in a
light trance in my experience) is to observe the pain as a
sensation, and then observe it as one would see it if it had
a physical existence. What shape is it, what colour, what
texture, what movements does it make? Where is it, does it
move quickly or slowly? Don't worry if this seems difficult,
don't put too much effort into it – make it up! The
important thing is that the image you are working with is
a metaphor for your pain, and as such, it makes sense to your
unconscious mind.
The next stage is to move the representation of the pain
outside your body, where it is easier to observe. Continue
to examine it from, say, two meters in front of you. Now become
aware of any sound it might make. What pitch is it, how loud
is it and so on?
Now we can start to change some of the qualities of the representation.
We can make it smaller or darker for example, or change the
colour(s). Alter the way it moves, change it's position. Change
the sound; turn the whole thing up side down. As you experiment
with this, notice which changes cause changes in the pain.
Finally, when you are satisfied with the changes you have
made you can either send the whole thing off into the distance
over the horizon, or you can put it back in your body in a
different location where any discomfort might be more manageable
or simply turn it upside down and put it back so it cancels
out the original pain.
Increasing Energy
The debilitation caused by pain leaves us depleted of energy.
Very simple visualisation exercise can help combat this. Put
yourself into a very relaxed state and focus on the breathing.
Imagine a golden ball of light around your body, that you
can both hear and feel vibrating. Spend some time experiencing
this, the sensation of the vibration on and through your body,
the sound of the vibration as a gentle mixture of harmonies
weaving together.
Now, simply become aware that as you breathe in, you take
in energy. The golden light gets brighter, the harmonies louder
and richer and the vibrations stronger. As you breathe out,
waste and tension are expelled, so the light gets clearer,
the harmonies more harmonious and the vibration serves to
further relax and massage your body.
These techniques are simply presented as an introduction
to the idea of taking control of your experience of pain.
They are not "NLP" or "hypnosis" techniques,
and they are not necessarily the sorts of work I would do
on a consultation. I don't know how successful you have been
with the techniques discussed in this article, but I do know
that you have embarked on a quest to explore the nature of
your own relationship with experience. And that is the key.
Successful pain management is less about a practitioner intervening
and taking away your pain, and more about you understanding
and gaining control over the factors that influence your pain.
About the Author
Adam is an NLP practitioner and Hypnotherapist, as well as a
mental health nurse with over a decades experience. He is passionate
about the use of language to effect change, and about the ability
of people to maximise their own potential.
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